Here are some example of the standard lines that are most commonly used in most civil weddings.
They
are
asked of the bride and group seperately or it can be asked together as a couple.
1.
___ & ____ Are both of you ready to give yourself to each other as husband and wife? YES
2.
_____ are you now ready to accept this challenge together? (Bride/Groom say, I am)
3.
Do you ___ & ____ come here today of you own free will to be united in marriage today? We do
Below are a few more less common consent questions being used in weddings today.
(Each are
asked seperately of the bride and groom)
1.
Groom first:
_____ do you come here today in the presence of thee witnesses, with love in your heart and with
a conscious desire to be united in marriage with ______? Do you primise to share the responsiblity
for growth and enrichment of your lives together and to give to ___ all the loving support she needs to become
the person she is destined to be?
I DO
Bride second:
_____ do you come here today in the presence of thee witnesses, with love in your heart and with
a conscious desire to be united in marriage with ______? Do you primise to share the responsiblity
for growth and enrichment of your lives together and to give to ___ all the loving support she needs to become
the person he is destined to be?
I DO
2. Who now stands with this woman to
symbolize their love and support in this marriage? (Brides Parents say, We
do) And who stands with this man to
symbolize their support and love to this marriage? (Grooms Parents say, We
do) Friends and Family, do you also
stand in accord with this couple today?
If so please say we do.
Groom first:
____ do you here in the presence of family and friends to declare your love for and commitment to ___,
choosing her as your life partner and soul mate? Do you freely offer yourself to him and willingly
accepte the gift of self she offers to you?
I DO
Bride second:
____ do you here in the presence of family and friends to declare your love for and commitment to ___,
choosing him as your life partner and soul mate? Do you freely offer yourself to him and willingly
accepte the gift of self he offers to you?
I DO
WHO GIVES THIS COUPLE
AWAY:
1.
(Friends say We Do)
2.
The marriage of
_____&____ brings together two different families; two unique story
lines,
so a new chapter in their lives can begin to unfold.
Though this
relationship was formed out of love these two have found in each other,
their
marriage will ultimately be blessed by the support of theri families.
Who
stands with this woman to sybolize her family support of this union today?
WE DO
And who stands on behalf of this man to symbolize his family support to
this union? WE DO
3.
The marriage of ____&_____ is more than just
the union of two people in love.
It is also the joining of two families, of
two sets of friends and of two patterns of life.
Who gives this young
lady to this young man before you today in marriage? WE DO
Who gives
this young man to this young lady before you today in marriage? WE DO
As
this couple is joined in marriage, they ask for the support and love of not only
their family
but of their friends as well. On this day, they ask that you be
more than only friends of ___ and ___
They ask that you reconize their
special union and welcome them both as your friends in your
lives.